On October 9th, we are presented with a profound reflection taken from Epictetus’ “Encheiridion”, one of the most influential works of Stoic philosophy. The quote of the day invites us to reflect on the nature of our search for control over life's circumstances and how this search can affect our inner tranquility.
“Don’t demand that things happen the way you want; but want them to happen the way they should, and you will go on with life more smoothly.” – Epictetus, Encheiridion, 8.
This powerful statement of Epictetus encapsulates one of the fundamental principles of Stoicism: the calm acceptance of reality. Let's explore this reflection in more depth, examining how we can apply it to our everyday lives and how stoic philosophy offers guidance for achieving a more peaceful and meaningful existence.
Accepting the Uncontrollable
The first part of the quote reminds us that we should not demand that things happen according to our desires and expectations. We often find ourselves frustrated and anxious when circumstances don't align with our plans. The obsessive search for Control over every aspect of life can leave us exhausted and emotionally drained.
The Stoics invite us to accept the universal truth that There are many events and situations that are beyond our control. This includes the actions of other people, the course of nature, and even the whims of fate. Instead of fighting this reality, we should embrace it with serenity.
Wishing for what should happen
The second part of the quote guides us to want things to happen the way they should. This does not mean that we should be passive or resigned in the face of difficulties, but rather that we should embrace a broader and wiser perspective.
Wanting things to happen as they should implies aligning our desires with the natural order of the universe. It means recognizing that even in the face of challenges and adversity, we can find a purpose and a lesson to be learned. This helps us avoid stubborn resistance to circumstances we cannot change and adapt wisely.
Moving on with Life More Calmly
By embracing the serene acceptance of reality and wanting things to happen the way they should, we find a path to living life more peacefully. This does not mean that we become indifferent or passive in the face of difficulties, but rather that we we develop emotional resilience and an ability to face challenges with serenity.
Stoicism teaches us that our inner peace should not depend on external circumstances, but rather on our response to them. When we understand that we cannot control everything, we release a load of stress and anxiety. When we want things to happen according to the natural order of the universe, we find meaning in even the most difficult situations.
Conclusion
The reflection of the day, coming from Epictetus' “Encheiridion”, invites us to adopt a wiser and calmer approach to life. She reminds us that, by serenely accepting reality and wanting things to occur according to the natural order, we can go through life with more tranquility and purpose.
As we apply these Stoic principles to our lives, we cultivate a mindset that allows us to face the uncertainties of existence with courage and grace. Every day, we can move closer to a more authentic and meaningful life, in tune with the flow of the universe.
This article explored the reflection of October 9th of the book “365 Stoic Reflections”, by Epictetus, highlighting its importance in the search for a more peaceful and meaningful life.
